Its 2 a.m, she is fighting the urge to end her life. She is
looking for an escape; from her problems, from her pain, from her depression.
She is thinking of options; pills, knife, bleach; lots of options to end her
life but nothing to save her. She is crying her heart out, she is fighting
herself. She keeps a pillow to her face and screams so no one in the house finds
out her pain. But why is she doing this? Why does she feel the need to end her
life?
She falls weak when she is tired of fighting. She has been
fighting since years, to let the world know who she is and what she wants from
life. She just wants to be trusted and someone to trust on, someone to count
on. She has lots of questions she can’t find answers to. She has so many things
to talk about but she is out of words. Maybe she is scared. Scared that no one
wants to listen to her. Scared that no one will understand her. Scared that no
one wants to be there for her. Scared that nobody really cares about her
existence. Not friends, not family, no one. But why is she so scared?
She is scarred, emotionally. When that fifteen year old girl
lost her father and left the country she was born and brought up in, her life
tilted upside down. She had to face an abusive brother who ridiculed her for being
fat, and a mother who would never stop him. Family is what we count on but when
one hears harsh and abusive words from their siblings, its leaves a scar for
life. No matter if the situations improve, the relations become stronger but
those words remain forever.
She made friends, some of them even very close. Then why doesn’t
she have anyone to talk to? Why doesn’t she have anyone to call at this hour of
the night? Why can’t she trust anyone? Because she has been lied to. The
friends she considered so dear have not considered her equally important. They lie
to her, they cheat her, they even ruin her happiness when they find out someone
is trying to make her smile.
A teacher is someone who lights a student’s life towards
success and wisdom but what to do when a teacher turns out to be a ‘devil in
disguise’. She trusted a teacher to be an ideal for her. She consulted him for
guidance in every step, looked up to him in every situation. What did he do? Put
her in a situation where she could have been sexually abused. She considered him to be a
father figure. He pretended to protect her in all circumstances but who knew he
would put her in such a situation. She learnt a great lesson that day; never idealize
anyone, you will shatter when the truth reveals.
She wants to feel the sense of belonging. She wants someone
to be there for her, to handle her in her worst and to celebrate with her when
she finds those little moments of happiness. She wants someone to hug her tight
when she is crying, then buy her French fries to cheer her up. She wants
someone who would motivate her for what she does; her education, her independence,
her helpful nature; not someone who would make her feel inferior by saying ‘oh
you drive? I am sure you are pretty bad it’. She wants someone to love her soul
and not her body. But she can’t find anyone, it’s too difficult for her. Why is
that so?
After all the things she has gone through she finds it hard
to trust anyone, and when she can’t trust anyone how can she love? She cared,
she loved, she trusted; and then people made her realize that she can’t be
loved, she can only be lusted. She has an attractive personality and many men
approach her but neither has the intention to marry her. She just keeps
thinking what those other girls do that a guy is convinced to get married. Maybe
it will take her another life to learn the trick about persuading a guy for
marriage and then maybe she will find someone who would love her.
A girl can conquer the world when her parents support her
but the day she lost her father she lost all the support too. She wants to talk
and share so much but she can’t because she knows her mother will not
understand. She knows being a single parent has not been easy for her mother
but all she needs is her trust. To trust her and let her fly, not to cut down
her wings and cage her in the house when she is already fighting to survive. She
doesn’t want that anger when she returns home a little late after work because
she was out with her friends for a while. She wants a welcome hug, a feeling of
concern and relaxation a mother feels when her child gets home safe. But when
she sees those furious eyes, she wishes she had died before returning home. She
wants her mother to understand that once in a while, it’s good to let her go
and enjoy by herself. She wants to travel and explore the world, experience new
things, learn the good and bad by herself. She has to live a dutiful life once
she gets married, she just wants to live her happiness now. She doesn’t show
her weakness because she has to be the strength of the family, the one who keeps
everyone happy and smiling. She is shattered inside yet she smiles on the
outside.
Maybe it’s too little to say why she landed in a depressed
life. Or maybe she is too tired to write anymore, or maybe she can’t find
anymore words to explain the pain she is going through. Maybe she is just
scared if she tells the complete truth she will ruin her life herself. Maybe she
is just scared of herself because she doesn’t know if she will be able to
survive the night or not.